survived?

When ted first got home everyone would say "yeah, its over we survived!" "You did it, you survived!" but lately i have been wondering if we have survived? yeah we got through 11 months of ted being gone but survived? i feel that we havent fully "survived." that we are all different and broken from this past 11 months and that there are ribbles that we havent even experienced yet and may be dealing with for years to come.